14 July 2008

God of the Gaps

Here's a great interview with Sean Carroll from last month. He explains lots of awkward concepts very simply. He also gives this succinct example and explanation of the god of the gaps view:

I don't want to give advice to people about their religious beliefs, but I do think that it's not smart to bet against the power of science to figure out the natural world. It used to be, a thousand years ago, that if you wanted to explain why the moon moved through the sky, you needed to invoke God.

And then Galileo and Newton came along and realized that there was conservation of momentum, so things tend to keep moving.

Nowadays people say, "Well, you certainly can't explain the creation of the universe without invoking God," and I want to say, "Don't bet against it."

I had this view of God for a long time. Even after accepting evolution, I felt I still needed God to explain the origin of the sorts of things evolution acts on, or possibly the origin of those origins... wherever there's any gap or ambiguity in understanding, people are eager to squeeze their God into it.

13 July 2008

Love isn't Unconditional

Or rather, it doesn't have to be, and I don't think it's a fair or realistic expectation. I'm not trying to sound petty or cynical here, but I've heard the unconditional love myth repeated a few times the last couple of weeks, and I'd like to take a minute to explain why it's not something we should expect of ourselves or of other people. Take this article for example:

Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism.

In other words, anything less than unconditional love is just "deep-seated opportunism". Yet the article later admits that love "can be lost", which would mean precisely that it was conditional, and that one of those conditions wasn't met! That we weren't consciously aware of a condition when we began loving someone doesn't mean it didn't exist.

I'd like to believe its authors were simply trying to discourage emotional blackmail and relationship abuse (phrases like "If you really loved me..."). But unconditionality doesn't convey that idea successfully, and could easily be interpreted as a command to remain a victim in such a relationship. I don't think it's hard to imagine that suffering prolonged abuse could cause our love for a person to dry up, and I don't think the accusation of "deep-seated opportunism" is applicable in that situation.

We bundle a diverse mess of complex behaviors into the label "love", but when describing personal relationships, I'll happily refer to OED's definition: "an intense feeling of deep affection". Our practical treatment of others may coincide or contradict that feeling, and evoke it or evaporate it accordingly. We should never expect someone to love us just because they've felt that way in the past. And we shouldn't accuse someone of having never truly loved us if they don't seem to show it now; that would be a self-sealing fallacy. I don't think it's fair to demand that love be unconditional; I think it's healthier to avoid placing such conditions on it.

10 July 2008

Through Thin

Stress left me little sleep the last few months; even less the last few weeks. It's starting to show in my conduct, sometimes in this blog, and in long-winded contrary comments I've left elsewhere. On the plus side, I've discovered some great bloggers, and started adding feeds to this blog's sidebar.

I've been given the benefit of closure on my life as one of Jehovah's Witnesses, that's not why I'm stressed. It's Alice. Our situation's worsened. She doesn't want to talk or even sit in a room with me anymore. I made an appointment for us to try some relationship therapy together, but I'm not sure how much raw material there is left for it. Since I admitted to her that I no longer believe in God, her attitude toward me has suddenly changed into something hard to love, or treat lovingly. She doesn't love me, she reminds me constantly, and it's hard to believe we can move beyond that.

I can't reason with her. My attempts get twisted into strange accusations or thrown back at me as challenges. I believe passionately that it's possible for couples to love through problems like these. But I can feel this disintegrating and slipping through my fingers, and squeezing harder just crushes it a little more.

I could let go. It sounds easy enough. But it makes my heart lurch.

06 July 2008

Commitment Devices

I've been listening to Dawkins' 2003 Tanner lectures at Harvard. I'd like to share a point Steven Pinker made in the seminar session:

Group solidarity benefits individuals to the extent that defectors and cheaters can be controlled. A group of people acting together can enjoy a number of benefits of cooperation, but are always vulnerable to those who would seek to enjoy the advantages of group membership without contributing to the common welfare. Policing possible cheaters and defectors is the fundamental problem in group living among non-relatives. Religious systems often exploit our emotional and cognitive faculties in order to weed out defectors, to make sure that people who are enjoying the group benefits pay their cost. One of them is public costly commitment. That is, to become a member of the group, you have to prove you're willing to contribute to the common will by publicly making some sacrifice that is genuinely costly and genuinely hard to fake: sacrificing your best animals, your best crops; as in the story of the binding of Isaac, your son—in real Jewish tradition, you hand over your newborn son and say, "Go ahead cut off a piece of his genitals." Only people who are pretty serious about being a member of the group will be willing to make such a sacrifice and those kinds of blood sacrifices are a ubiquitous element of religion as a commitment device.

I still have the habit of framing this sort of statement in the context of my own recent beliefs, so here goes: the commitment devices of Jehovah's Witnesses include separatism, adherence to group rules, engagement in preaching work, and attendance and participation at religious gatherings. Involvement in these (physically, not directly financially) costly activities is considered evidence of "spirituality", a quality that wouldn't be quantifiable or practically definable otherwise. True, this leaves an unfortunate gap for those sick and elderly who are unable to demonstrate their own spirituality through some of the more physical activities, especially preaching, which is a vital element of the belief system. Jehovah's Witnesses' literature recommends that such ones be treated consolingly. Of course, human attitudes vary in practice and some are less capable consolers than others, but physical illness actually provides further opportunity for healthy Jehovah's Witnesses to evidence their spirituality by aiding the needy; a commitment device that contributes to the needs of the group.

When learning about game theory, I only considered two-actor scenarios in which a consistent cooperator is worse off when confronted with a consistent defector. But unrequited cooperation can find rewards within group situations to the extent that demonstration of a cooperative attitude is recognized by other group members. Care and treatment of the sick and elderly can be one example of this: unhealthy individuals may be unable to reciprocate, but the donor may earn affection and thus further secure a position within the group.

Pinker's examples were all wasteful activities, which he called blood sacrifices, but most of the commitment devices I've described so far have obvious benefits for the group: separatism insulates group members from outside ideas; rules help group leaders identify and correct or remove defectors; preaching expands the group. But these activities all come at great cost to individuals, and some of the specific rules (famously, refusal to accept blood transfusions) do seem wasteful in the immediate term.

I think the last few words of that last paragraph deserve special consideration: Jehovah's Witnesses and other religious groups believe their commitment devices are beneficial in the long term, afterlife, or resurrection, and some religions advertise short-term benefits to help support odd practices. Jews, for example, advertise the health benefits of circumcision and risks of contracting parasites from forbidden meats, while Jehovah's Witnesses claim health risks related to blood transfusion. These benefits may not be true, but they are believed to be true, which eases acceptance of the practice itself. As I discussed in a previous post, the success of a religion depends on its having some beneficial precepts. Pinker has articulated that precepts with no apparent benefit may still be helpful as commitment devices, though commitment devices aren't necessarily wasteful.

05 July 2008

Excusing Jehovah for Untimely Death

One of my blog-reads recently asked the internet how Christians reconcile the untimely death of fellow believers with the Problem of Evil; how can they excuse God for "saving" a handful of people out of a bus-load of Christians? I offered a response from the perspective of my past beliefs as one of Jehovah's Witnesses, and thought to adapt it into a blog entry:

Jehovah's Witnesses believe God will one day resurrect the dead to live forever in perfect health on a paradise earth—the same conditions Adam & Eve enjoyed before The Fall. Any death or suffering in the present is mathematically inconsequential compared with the joy of that future. When disaster affects Jehovah's Witnesses, some survivors do attribute their survival to God's hand, while others (recognizing that deaths occurred) feel that they only luckily escaped one of Satan's attacks. I was of the latter, but suspect the former believed their lives were spared for the great purpose of introducing a yet-unknown specific person into the cult, who might respond better to their particular personality than any other.

Jehovah's Witnesses are very evasive about who God will spare, and about the great mystery of how so many resurrected will fit on planet earth (quite comfortably, most insist, once the oceans are lifted and once again become a magical vapor canopy). They constantly remind one another that the post-Armageddon paradise will "set right" all that Adam upset in eating a piece of fruit; who are we to make God's judgment of who will or won't receive resurrection? Perhaps Hitler had some correctable chemical imbalances and will be right as rain if given the chance in paradise; we just don't know. This of course makes the belief system very attractive to vulnerable mourners who're unconvinced their deceased loved one would meet the dress code for heaven. That said, Jehovah's Witnesses still insist that many "won't make it" to that paradise, hence the urgency of their saving message. Objections that if Hitler can be reformed, so can anyone, are met with the response: "But maybe not. Who are we to make God's judgment?"

A lot of this is very specific for Jehovah's Witnesses, but I suspect other religions offer comparable beliefs to comfort the bereaved, the survivor, and the martyr alike. Excuses for untimely death depend on a long chain of other beliefs, which are mostly irrational only at their very core. Ultimately, religions teach that God's mind is a mystery, but the surrounding delusion is rather more intricate than that. This is partly why it's so hard to pick apart belief systems and why it's so hard to keep fundamentalists focused on one specific point in a debate: their beliefs are so tangled and interdependent it's often impossible to remove one without affecting all the others. To debate fundamentalists, you must play Jack Straws with their beliefs.

04 July 2008

Love the Sinner

Moxie's blog alerted me to another great YouTube series, this time more specifically relevant to Jehovah's Witnesses' beliefs.

Although Lance, a Gilead graduate, is well aware of major faults in its teachings, he still remembers the Governing Body as a group of humble, approachable men "who really appreciate the position they have." I'm sometimes moved to blame the anonymous writers and researchers of Jehovah's Witnesses' literature for presenting false ideas either lyingly or without careful research, and it's nice to be reminded of the more pleasant aspects of their personality. I too have lots of great memories of time spent with Jehovah's Witnesses, and try not to let my present situation taint them. Although there are some serious issues with their anti-historical, anti-scientific propaganda, Jehovah's Witnesses are still human beings, and it's nice to see someone making a criticism of their teachings without resorting to unnecessary ad hominem.

There are a few teachings of Jehovah's Witnesses I'd like to continue researching and describing on here, but I don't want to let that research become a bitter debunking. An attitude like Lance's could help me in that effort, and I hope I can echo it.

If you're interested, the interview is split into two videos available on YouTube:
Part 1
Part 2

03 July 2008

The Abacus Makes Arithmetic Obsolete

Yesterday, a workmate showed me this crazy little piece. We were both stunned at the nonsense it presents. Anderson's ridiculous notion that sheer data mining will somehow obsolete critical thought has much in common with the crackpot philosophy behind the doomsday-predicting "Web-Bot Project" I mentioned in an earlier post. It's true that scientists are running experiments in ways that gather more data than has previously been practical; that data analysis is therefore more abstract and relies more heavily on computer-driven algorithms; but suggesting that this amplitude of data obsoletes the scientific method is equivalent to suggesting that calculators supersede mathematics. It's utter nonsense.

Since then, I learned (through Seed's Daily Zeitgeist, one of my favorite new daily reads) that Sean Carroll at Cosmic Variance picked up the story and puts Anderson down, firmly but quite politely. I suspect Anderson intended merely to sensationalize an "Isn't it Marvelous What Computers Can Do" story, but I'm still disturbed by his lack of understanding or appreciation for scientific thinking.